At the end of March to mid-April, I will be in New York, offering Exclusive Sessions for locals and visitors to the city. New York is an electrifying city that never sleeps, where every desire can be indulged, so I am rather excited to visit and experience what the city has on offer. I am available for pure sessions either in hotel rooms or dungeons, or secret public sessions (kinky tours through the city), being a companion to clubs and events, and open to receiving services such as chauffeur, food deliverer, shopping spree, city apartment ‘airbnb trade’ (where you move out

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Yes, most Dominatrices in the industry are not authentic. They are usually sex workers who have chosen Domination and BDSM as their niche. Therefore, they are more PornDommes than authentic Dominatrices. They pander to male want and desire to build an Adult business, and have whittled Femdom down to sheer entertainment like a theme park ride. They have sensationalized Femdom, only doing the things that get the most clicks, disregarding the full spectrum and quality of Female Domination. These pretenders pose as stereotypical Dommes but they are mainly Social Media influencers, Only Fans and porn Content Creators for Adult sites

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Ok, let’s get serious. There are many reasons why someone might feel guilty about seeing a Dominatrix. The most common reasons are they have a partner who doesn’t know, or it conflicts with their social identity, that investing in carnal pleasure is a ‘sin’ and means you are not a ‘respectable’ man. I have played with over 1000 people and have had conversations with tens of thousands more, many of which have had these concerns. The best way to know if BDSM and Domination with a Professional Dominatrix is for you is to make informed decisions that sustains your conscience.

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All I know is that I’m a real Dominatrix. My intentions for professional sessions are usually quite different from most ProDommes… I want erotic pleasure. A lot of people think there is a big difference between a private session and a professional session, somehow as if the private session is better because real feelings are involved. I guess they’ve never gone to see a Dominatrix like Me before. Doing business for Me doesn’t diminish My erotic feelings. I feel just as much in my professional sessions as my private, and often even more because I am encouraged and inspired by

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Even though dungeons and specialist equipment can be fun, they are not needed for organic play or Domination, and they are especially not needed if the Dominatrix is creative and innovative. Thus, I prefer to session in everyday settings – apartments, hotels, nature – to be flexible, to focus on natural Domination and dynamic, and to challenge myself. I have been sessioning in everyday spaces for over ten years in different countries. I’ve sessioned in 5-star hotels in major cities to cabins above the Arctic Circle. I’ve sessioned on isolated islands were nature provided the tools for torture, in a

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Racy Wilde is an International Mistress based in Madrid. She provides services in BDSM, Domination/submission (D/s), Fetish, and BDSM Education through private sessions, mentorships and coaching, and public seminars and workshops. She travels throughout Spain and Europe. Miss Racy has designed her personal journey to develop into the Professional Dominatrix she is today. Discovering her natural talents in BDSM and Domination at a young age, she has spent years learning, developing and practicing her craft with the best players in the world scene, creating her distinct Femdom philosophy, style, techniques and methods. She is an Absolute Domme, a real Sadist, an

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This is something I rarely reveal in public…  I’ve seen thousands of Pro-Dominatrix sites and their Social Media. What most, if not all, have in common is how they spin a story that they are a ‘master of mind penetration’. They say they understand men and that they can make them turn putty in Her hands, as if that is the thing men desire from Her the most. But yet, I know most Pro-Dominatrices, (if not all), don’t do the one thing a man truly desires. What does a man desire? To be desired. This is something that today’s Pro-Dominatrices

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Well, the overarching reason is: Because they can. When men are younger, paying for it damages their pride. When men are older, logic and reason creeps in. They wise up. It is a fallacy to think that only men who can’t get a woman go to see a professional. It is quite the opposite. Seeing a professional isn’t just on a whim for them, they have usually looked at their life and decided what they want. It is a very rational choice. The main reasons I’ve discovered why men see a Dominatrix are: 1. They don’t want the ‘hassle’ of

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