A real Lifestyle Domme offering experiences to submissives who desire something authentic and personal.

I play for My pleasure. I select My submissives carefully to ensure I get what I want. I am not here for your amusement… you are here for Mine.

Based in Oslo, Norway.


My dominance is Mine to give to whomever I want.

A free-spirited Domme, My dominance is playful, wild and passionate, and sexually charged. Most importantly, My dominance is real and organic – it is awakened and inspired by the unique connection I have with each person. I enjoy an authentic and positive atmosphere, and I’m a sucker for sexy fun. Being easy-going is one of My strengths as a Domme, but I’m certainly no pushover. As a sadist, I know my stuff and I play hard. I look for unique opportunities to challenge and extend Myself, and to make good use of My mad MacGyver skills.

I adore male submission – it’s elegant and beautiful, and damn-ass sexy. The power in a man when he embraces his submissive self is captivating and seductive. I value My submissives, desire them, admire them as human beings. Negatively impacting the mind is not my thing, nor is stripping a sub of his dignity. I don’t do possession or degradation. It’s just not in me.

I enjoy play sessions with like-minded kinksters, however, I’m very particular about who I like to play with. To connect with a sub, I need to connect with the person. I can’t tell you what attracts me to a person because it is different with everyone, but what I can tell you is that I love learning through new experiences, discovering different kinks with brave people and opportunities to explore My dominance in unique ways. I treasure all My encounters, and I value all My play partners.

I am the new breed of Femdom.


BDSM has been a constant in my life. I have been exploring and practicing for many years. I’ve travelled for pleasure meeting amazing people from all over the world and have enjoyed some very kinky, fun and intimate play sessions.

I have been investing in the BDSM scene for a long time – attending events and fetish weekends, going to workshops and connecting with kinksters while I’m in town. Frequented cities: Oslo, London, Berlin and Melbourne.

I prefer to keep anonymous as that is best for my submissives. I am known through certain circles but I do not advertise myself.

If you want verification of my Femdom and experience, visit my profile on Fetlife. There you will find many pictures of play sessions, writings and interactions from over the years.

I also have an AdmireMe.VIP account with video content in which you can see me in action during my play sessions.

I am the one and only Miss Racy Wilde.