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Why Do Men See A Dominatrix?

Well, the overarching reason is: Because they can. When men are younger, paying for it damages their pride. When men are older, logic and reason creeps in. They wise up. It is a fallacy to think that only men who can’t get a woman go to see a professional. It is quite the opposite. Seeing a professional isn’t just on a whim for them, they have usually looked at their life and decided what they want. It is a very rational choice. The main reasons I’ve discovered why men see a Dominatrix are: 1. They don’t want the ‘hassle’ of

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The Difference Between a Pro-Domme and a Lifestyle Domme

Below are only basic descriptions of each category of Domme. It is important to remember, there is no one way to be a Domme. In fact, a lot of women practice Pro-Domme and Lifestyle Domme at the same time. However, there is a distinct division between male fantasy and real Femdom. Professional Dommes Pro-Domme is an umbrella term that describes the women who receive money from domination. They are technically in the role of Service Top, not Dominants. They provide a service-based experience tailored for their client. This is business; play-for-pay; money is the driver; and customer satisfaction is essential

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Kink vs BDSM

A kink is a non-conventional sexual behaviour or practice, preference or fantasy, such as group sex and swinging, anal play, and furry or medical role-play. A fetish is a sexual interest in an object or body part.  BDSM is an umbrella acronym for specific non-conventional practices that are considered taboo by society. Simply, BDSM is Bondage, Discipline, Sadism-masochism and Domination/submission (D/s): Bondage means any type of restraint – usually physical but can also be mental. Discipline means a rule and punishment system, usually within a power dynamic. Sadism means deriving pleasure, often sexual arousal, from the pain and suffering of

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Anal Training for Complete Beginners

This piece is dedicated to all the subs who want me to train their ass. There are no hard and fast rules on anal training – every ass, every man and every situation is different. The best you can do is listen to your body and make informed choices for your own training. I have had good experience with many different men, but I am in no way an authority. I am not a medical practitioner. The information I’m providing is from my own learning and practice with male subs. This is just a guide to inspire you on your

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