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Sessions in Everyday Spaces

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Even though dungeons and specialist equipment can be fun, they are not needed for organic play or Domination, and they are especially not needed if the Dominatrix is creative and innovative. Thus, I prefer to session in everyday settings – apartments, hotels, nature – to be flexible, to focus on natural Domination and dynamic, and to challenge myself. I have been sessioning in everyday spaces for over ten years in different countries. I’ve sessioned in 5-star hotels in major cities to cabins above the Arctic Circle. I’ve sessioned on isolated islands were nature provided the tools for torture, in a

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Why do I always use *him* to describe a sub?

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I’m pansexual. I can be attracted to anyone with an ass. I’m proudly part of the LGBTQ+ community and I respect the changes in our vanilla language to recognise, value and cherish everyone. But there is a clear reason for Me personally as to why I always use “him” in BDSM and Femdom to describe a submissive. Language reversal. Even though I support gender equality, which includes the recognition and use of appropriate pronouns, in My own Femdom language, which I am consciously and continually constructing, especially with text, I want to drill home that men, all men, are fully

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Cuckold

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BDSM shot What makes a man a cuckold? In BDSM, a cuckold is a husband who is compliant, even supportive, of his wife’s infidelity. It technically means a man needs to have at least an emotional relationship with a woman before he can be considered a cuck. Just wanting to watch a woman fuck someone else, or licking her pussy afterwards, does not make him a cuck. Making a man a cuck is the decision of the Dominant Woman, not the man. Cuckoldry is a form of Sadomasochism, which uses humiliation to create emotional pain.

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Femdom Event – Scene Narrative

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Si eres Mujer Dominante, el Club de Damas te invita a participar a una nueva noche FemDom. Como siempre, el ambiente será distendido y discreto, y tendremos la comodidad de un elegante local privado dispuesto para ello. Será impartido, una vez más, por una de nuestras integrantes, la Sra. Racy Wilde. Racy Wilde es una experimentada Dominatrix y estilo de vida como Domme. Tiene una filosofía y un estilo FemDom distintivos, y ha desarrollado su propio protocolo, técnicas y métodos a lo largo de muchos años, realizando sesiones con miles de parejas de todo el mundo. En este Seminario teórico

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To Be Ready For Pegging

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So, you want your ass to be ravaged? Well, this is a real world, no bullshit, reality: I’m in the big leagues. I use pegs that are too heavy for my strapon that I have to hold them up with two hands. Don’t be fooled by my pegs in pictures. Most are 20cm, and they are used for hardcore banging. I’m definitely an Extreme Queen – go big or go home. I have many years experience with hundreds of partners. However, I am also a beginner specialist. Firstly, if you don’t already play with your ass, especially when you masturbate,

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How to Clean For Anal Sex

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Anal sex includes oral, dextral, toy and penetrative sex. Cleaning before anal sex reduces health risks, is respecting your partner, and enables you to feel confident and free to enjoy. It is best to choose the cleaning method for the type of sex you will be engaging in. The Two Types Of Cleaning For Anal Sex There are two types of cleaning for anal sex: a light douche, which is cleaning for basic anal play that includes oral, dextral and light penetration and an enema, which is deep cleaning for hardcore anal sex that includes deep pegging, big anal toys and fisting.

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International Mistress in Madrid

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Racy Wilde is an International Mistress based in Madrid. She provides services in BDSM, Domination/submission (D/s), Fetish, and BDSM Education through private sessions, mentorships and coaching, and public seminars and workshops. She travels throughout Spain and Europe. Miss Racy has designed her personal journey to develop into the Professional Dominatrix she is today. Discovering her natural talents in BDSM and Domination at a young age, she has spent years learning, developing and practicing her craft with the best players in the world scene, creating her distinct Femdom philosophy, style, techniques and methods. She is an Absolute Domme, a real Sadist, an

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FEMDOM EVENING EQUESTRIANISM

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FEMDOM EVENING EQUESTRIANISM Si eres Mujer Dominante, el Club de Damas te invita a participar a una noche de Entrenamiento FemDom. El ambiente será distendido y discreto, y tendremos la comodidad de un elegante local privado dispuesto para ello. Será impartido por una de nuestras integrantes, la Sra. Racy Wilde. Racy Wilde es una experimentada Dominatrix y estilo de vida como Domme. Tiene una filosofía y un estilo FemDom distintivos, y ha desarrollado su propio protocolo, técnicas y métodos a lo largo de muchos años, realizando sesiones con miles de parejas de todo el mundo. En este Seminario teórico y

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How To Train Your Gentlemen

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It is common talk among women today about the lack of gentlemanship among men. ‘Where are the gentlemen?’ they ask. ‘In the old days, men knew how to treat a woman, talk to a woman and take care of her. In the old days, there was chivalry… ‘ and they go on and on about how they want a ‘Mr Knightly or Mr Darcy’. But there is one thing these women don’t know about the old days… In the old days, a gentleman was not naturally chivalrous or charming or sophisticated… He was not inherently manly and stylish, dutiful or

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