The Discipline of Letting Go
There is a particular kind of man I tend to dominate. He is not searching for his identity—he has already built one. He knows how to apply himself. He understands effort, intention, and consequence. He has developed competence in his world, whether that is through business, sport, leadership, or simply the discipline of holding his life together. He is used to directing outcomes, making decisions, and maintaining control. From the outside, there is very little missing for him. And yet, at a certain point, something begins to dawn on him. What if control is not the central skill that fulfills him? Most men never