A Dominatrix and a Gentle Femdom (GFD) have different Domination styles and character, but they are both Femdoms. A Dominatrix is considered a Hard Femdom and a GFD is considered a Soft Femdom – therefore they are at opposite ends of the Domination spectrum. This doesn’t mean that they don’t do the same play, but the differences are evident in they way they approach the same scenario, as below.
When you’re in a spiked chastity cage and you can’t help crying a little:
- Dominatrix: Are those fucking tears? Suck it up, bitch, or I’ll cane your balls and give you something to really cry about.
- GFD: Awww, are those little tears streaming down your face? How cute! Let me kiss them better for you.
When she has just upsized your peg and you can barely breath when it’s all inside of you:
- Dominatrix: she has you in doggie style on a hard-wooden bench so she can keep her distance and the only thing you can hold onto for comfort is the corners.
- GFD: she is spooning you in a warm cosy bed, runs her hands through your hair and plants soft kisses on your back to help you open up to her.
She has just flogged your ass red-raw as you hung onto the St Andrew’s Cross. Sitting on her throne, she tells you to come to her:
- Dominatrix: She makes you kneel on the cold cement floor to suck on her steel-tipped heels.
- GFD: She makes you crawl into her lap so she can sooth you with light scratches all over your body. When you feel safe, she makes you kneel on the cold cement floor to suck on her little toes.
As she is choking you, she tells you to open your mouth:
- Dominatrix: She spits right inside hitting your tonsils.
- GFD: She playfully sucks on your tongue as she squeezes her hands tighter around your throat.
At the end:
- Dominatrix: she leaves you to yourself so you can get dressed and digest.
- GFD: she wraps her legs around you on the bed and tells you what a good boy you have been.