We are always talking about subs – their desires, their wants, their needs. We talk about their subspace. And, we talk about their subdrop. Ufff! Did you know that Dommes can drop just as heavy, or even further than subs? It is not only subs who have an emotional or physical experience during and after a session. Dom/mes do too. We put in as much physical and emotional effort as our subs, and most often, even more because we are the ones that are carrying the action and the mood. Yes, we most certainly can experience Dommespace. And… likewise, Dommedrop.

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I get a lot of guys wanting to be humiliated but they don’t know what the fuck they are asking from me. I’m a sadist, I want to destroy you. That means I will humiliate you beyond your comfort zone. I do it to take our dynamic to the edge and so you can practice holding onto your dignity with all you’ve got. To define (as many don’t understand the differences): • Embarrassment makes you feel uneasy and self-conscious for a moment. You can laugh it off. • Humiliation impacts your pride. You feel hurt and shame. You fight against

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Below are only basic descriptions of each category of Domme. It is important to remember, there is no one way to be a Domme. In fact, a lot of women practice Pro-Domme and Lifestyle Domme at the same time. However, there is a distinct division between male fantasy and real Femdom. Professional Dommes Pro-Domme is an umbrella term that describes the women who receive money from domination. They are technically in the role of Service Top, not Dominants. They provide a service-based experience tailored for their client. This is business; play-for-pay; money is the driver; and customer satisfaction is essential

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A kink is a non-conventional sexual behaviour or practice, preference or fantasy, such as group sex and swinging, anal play, and furry or medical role-play. A fetish is a sexual interest in an object or body part.  BDSM is an umbrella acronym for specific non-conventional practices that are considered taboo by society. Simply, BDSM is Bondage, Discipline, Sadism-masochism and Domination/submission (D/s): Bondage means any type of restraint – usually physical but can also be mental. Discipline means a rule and punishment system, usually within a power dynamic. Sadism means deriving pleasure, often sexual arousal, from the pain and suffering of

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