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Sessions in Everyday Spaces

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Even though dungeons and specialist equipment can be fun, they are not needed for organic play or Domination, and they are especially not needed if the Dominatrix is creative and innovative. Thus, I prefer to session in everyday settings – apartments, hotels, nature – to be flexible, to focus on natural Domination and dynamic, and to challenge myself. I have been sessioning in everyday spaces for over ten years in different countries. I’ve sessioned in 5-star hotels in major cities to cabins above the Arctic Circle. I’ve sessioned on isolated islands were nature provided the tools for torture, in a

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Why do I always use *him* to describe a sub?

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I’m pansexual. I can be attracted to anyone with an ass. I’m proudly part of the LGBTQ+ community and I respect the changes in our vanilla language to recognise, value and cherish everyone. But there is a clear reason for Me personally as to why I always use him in BDSM and Femdom to describe a submissive. Language reversal. Even though I support gender equality, which includes the recognition and use of appropriate pronouns, in My own Femdom language, which I am consciously and continually constructing, especially with text, I want to drill home that men, all men, are fully

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Cuckold

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BDSM shot What makes a man a cuckold? In BDSM, a cuckold is a husband who is compliant, even supportive, of his wife’s infidelity. It technically means a man needs to have at least an emotional relationship with a woman before he can be considered a cuck. Just wanting to watch a woman fuck someone else, or licking her pussy afterwards, does not make him a cuck. Making a man a cuck is the decision of the Dominant Woman, not the man. Cuckoldry is a form of Sadomasochism, which uses humiliation to create emotional pain.

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Femdom Event – Scene Narrative

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Si eres Mujer Dominante, el Club de Damas te invita a participar a una nueva noche FemDom. Como siempre, el ambiente será distendido y discreto, y tendremos la comodidad de un elegante local privado dispuesto para ello. Será impartido, una vez más, por una de nuestras integrantes, la Sra. Racy Wilde. Racy Wilde es una experimentada Dominatrix y estilo de vida como Domme. Tiene una filosofía y un estilo FemDom distintivos, y ha desarrollado su propio protocolo, técnicas y métodos a lo largo de muchos años, realizando sesiones con miles de parejas de todo el mundo. En este Seminario teórico

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Pathetic or Desired, which do you want to be?

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Do you want to be seen as pathetic by your Domme? Being the grovelling sub who leaves his dignity at the door? If you do, don’t expect to ever have sex with your Dominant Woman. Women don’t have sex with men they see as pathetic. I know many Dommes who own pathetic slaves. They love having them because it is easier to be cruel to a pathetic man. (It is because they feel powerful by being mean, but aren’t real sadists. A real sadist like me will want to hurt subs, no matter attraction, but especially if she is attracted

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Sex Slave

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Ok, teaching time… I don’t think a lot totally understand what a sex slave is… So, here’s the low down: The Sex Part To be a sex slave, you have to be good at sex. Like, amazing. You have to have had lots of sex with lots of different partners, and know your way around a woman’s body. You have to be good with your cock, your mouth and your hands. It’s not just about doing what you are told to do… You have to be proactive and innovative… Your energy and drive needs to be Alpha… You need to

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To Be Ready For Pegging

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So, you want your ass to be ravaged? Well, this is a real world, no bullshit, reality: I’m in the big leagues. I use pegs that are too heavy for my strapon that I have to hold them up with two hands. Don’t be fooled by my pegs in pictures. Most are 20cm, and they are used for hardcore banging. I’m definitely an Extreme Queen – go big or go home. I have many years experience with hundreds of partners. However, I am also a beginner specialist. Firstly, if you don’t already play with your ass, especially when you masturbate,

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