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How to Clean For Anal Sex

Anal sex includes oral, dextral, toy and penetrative sex. Cleaning before anal sex reduces health risks, is respecting your partner, and enables you to feel confident and free to enjoy. It is best to choose the cleaning method for the type of sex you will be engaging in. The Two Types Of Cleaning For Anal Sex There are two types of cleaning for anal sex: a light douche, which is cleaning for basic anal play that includes oral, dextral and light penetration and an enema, which is deep cleaning for hardcore anal sex that includes deep pegging, big anal toys and fisting.

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International Mistress in Madrid

Racy Wilde is an International Mistress based in Madrid. She provides services in BDSM, Domination/submission (D/s), Fetish, and BDSM Education through private sessions, mentorships and coaching, and public seminars and workshops. She travels throughout Spain and Europe. Miss Racy has designed her personal journey to develop into the Professional Dominatrix she is today. Discovering her natural talents in BDSM and Domination at a young age, she has spent years learning, developing and practicing her craft with the best players in the world scene, creating her distinct Femdom philosophy, style, techniques and methods. She is an Absolute Domme, a real Sadist, an

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FEMDOM EVENING EQUESTRIANISM

FEMDOM EVENING EQUESTRIANISM Si eres Mujer Dominante, el Club de Damas te invita a participar a una noche de Entrenamiento FemDom. El ambiente será distendido y discreto, y tendremos la comodidad de un elegante local privado dispuesto para ello. Será impartido por una de nuestras integrantes, la Sra. Racy Wilde. Racy Wilde es una experimentada Dominatrix y estilo de vida como Domme. Tiene una filosofía y un estilo FemDom distintivos, y ha desarrollado su propio protocolo, técnicas y métodos a lo largo de muchos años, realizando sesiones con miles de parejas de todo el mundo. En este Seminario teórico y

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Getting Into The Minds Of submissives

I don’t talk about penetrating your mind and seducing you into submission because… I’m a real sadist. I am very careful with the body, but even more so with the mind, because I know how to use you and abuse you, how to hit your core to shake your equilibrium, and how to destroy your perception of yourself. This is a talent that can be very dangerous, and I do not use it lightly. I need full consent by a submissive who is fully aware of the risks, has proven to Me they have the capacity to emotionally overcome whatever

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Kink contra BDSM

English version here Una perversión es un comportamiento o práctica, preferencia o fantasía sexual no convencional, como el sexo en grupo y el swing, el juego anal y los juegos de roles médicos o peludos. Un fetiche es un interés sexual por un objeto o parte del cuerpo. BDSM es un acrónimo general de prácticas específicas no convencionales que la sociedad considera tabú. Simplemente, BDSM es Bondage, Disciplina, Sadismo-masoquismo y Dominación/sumisión (D/s): Bondage significa cualquier tipo de restricción, generalmente física, pero también puede ser mental. Disciplina significa un sistema de reglas y castigos, generalmente dentro de una dinámica de poder.

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The Marilyn Monroe Wonder

This is something I rarely reveal in public…  I’ve seen thousands of Pro-Dominatrix sites and their Social Media. What most, if not all, have in common is how they spin a story that they are a ‘master of mind penetration’. They say they understand men and that they can make them turn putty in Her hands, as if that is the thing men desire from Her the most. But yet, I know most Pro-Dominatrices, (if not all), don’t do the one thing a man truly desires. What does a man desire? To be desired. This is something that today’s Pro-Dominatrices

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Punch Drunk Dommespace

Whatever this writing, it doesn’t do the experience justice. Three months they have to give Me first. Three months I require them to bank enough credit before I will start My investment. Three months of their body, their pain, their ass, their commitment and devotion. I only lightly train, I only lightly play, I only lightly give My energy to them. Three months is the probation time My personal submissives must give Me before I will give Myself to them. Most don’t make it. At the beginning of last night, I told him, ‘We are at the three-month mark of

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How To Train Your Gentlemen

It is common talk among women today about the lack of gentlemanship among men. ‘Where are the gentlemen?’ they ask. ‘In the old days, men knew how to treat a woman, talk to a woman and take care of her. In the old days, there was chivalry… ‘ and they go on and on about how they want a ‘Mr Knightly or Mr Darcy’. But there is one thing these women don’t know about the old days… In the old days, a gentleman was not naturally chivalrous or charming or sophisticated… He was not inherently manly and stylish, dutiful or

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Dominant, Not Domineering

Every woman’s dominance is different. The problem is, many subs have an expectation of what women’s dominance is supposed to look like – aggressive and mean. Hm. There is a difference between a dominant woman and a domineering woman… and some are confusing the two. A domineering woman is bossy. She’s the one that barks orders and speaks condescendingly. She’s overpowering. Everything has to be about her. She’s a dictator. If you want that, then go for it… but she is NOT a dominant woman. A dominant woman has an inner power that evokes respect, no matter her natural disposition.

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How Men Have Created Femdom

So, You Want To Worship? I train some of my friends who are new to Femdom. We talk more about Femdom philosophy, and the perspective of a Femdom, more than activities and play. So, below is a perspective of Mine about how to gain more control of your Femdom. However, my reader in this writing is a man. Women are not dumb. We know that a lot of Femdom has been created by men for men. Men have developed roles, types, and activities to satisfy themselves, calling it Femdom, even though it is not. But it is not all their

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