I don’t talk about penetrating your mind and seducing you into submission because… I’m a real sadist. I am very careful with the body, but even more so with the mind, because I know how to use you and abuse you, how to hit your core to shake your equilibrium, and how to destroy your perception of yourself. This is a talent that can be very dangerous, and I do not use it lightly. I need full consent by a submissive who is fully aware of the risks, has proven to Me they have the capacity to emotionally overcome whatever

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Whatever this writing, it doesn’t do the experience justice. Three months they have to give Me first. Three months I require them to bank enough credit before I will start My investment. Three months of their body, their pain, their ass, their commitment and devotion. I only lightly train, I only lightly play, I only lightly give My energy to them. Three months is the probation time My personal submissives must give Me before I will give Myself to them. Most don’t make it. At the beginning of last night, I told him, ‘We are at the three-month mark of

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It is common talk among women today about the lack of gentlemanship among men. ‘Where are the gentlemen?’ they ask. ‘In the old days, men knew how to treat a woman, talk to a woman and take care of her. In the old days, there was chivalry… ‘ and they go on and on about how they want a ‘Mr Knightly or Mr Darcy’. But there is one thing these women don’t know about the old days… In the old days, a gentleman was not naturally chivalrous or charming or sophisticated… He was not inherently manly and stylish, dutiful or

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Every woman’s dominance is different. The problem is, many subs have an expectation of what women’s dominance is supposed to look like – aggressive and mean. Hm. There is a difference between a dominant woman and a domineering woman… and some are confusing the two. A domineering woman is bossy. She’s the one that barks orders and speaks condescendingly. She’s overpowering. Everything has to be about her. She’s a dictator. If you want that, then go for it… but she is NOT a dominant woman. A dominant woman has an inner power that evokes respect, no matter her natural disposition.

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So, You Want To Worship? I train some of my friends who are new to Femdom. We talk more about Femdom philosophy, and the perspective of a Femdom, more than activities and play. So, below is a perspective of Mine about how to gain more control of your Femdom. However, my reader in this writing is a man. Women are not dumb. We know that a lot of Femdom has been created by men for men. Men have developed roles, types, and activities to satisfy themselves, calling it Femdom, even though it is not. But it is not all their

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