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Pathetic or Desired, which do you want to be?

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Do you want to be seen as pathetic by your Domme? Being the grovelling sub who leaves his dignity at the door? If you do, don’t expect to ever have sex with your Dominant Woman. Women don’t have sex with men they see as pathetic. I know many Dommes who own pathetic slaves. They love having them because it is easier to be cruel to a pathetic man. (It is because they feel powerful by being mean, but aren’t real sadists. A real sadist like me will want to hurt subs, no matter attraction, but especially if she is attracted

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Sex Slave

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Ok, teaching time… I don’t think a lot totally understand what a sex slave is… So, here’s the low down: The Sex Part To be a sex slave, you have to be good at sex. Like, amazing. You have to have had lots of sex with lots of different partners, and know your way around a woman’s body. You have to be good with your cock, your mouth and your hands. It’s not just about doing what you are told to do… You have to be proactive and innovative… Your energy and drive needs to be Alpha… You need to

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To Be Ready For Pegging

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So, you want your ass to be ravaged? Well, this is a real world, no bullshit, reality: I’m in the big leagues. I use pegs that are too heavy for my strapon that I have to hold them up with two hands. Don’t be fooled by my pegs in pictures. Most are 20cm, and they are used for hardcore banging. I’m definitely an Extreme Queen – go big or go home. I have many years experience with hundreds of partners. However, I am also a beginner specialist. Firstly, if you don’t already play with your ass, especially when you masturbate,

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How to Clean For Anal Sex

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Anal sex includes oral, dextral, toy and penetrative sex. Cleaning before anal sex reduces health risks, is respecting your partner, and enables you to feel confident and free to enjoy. It is best to choose the cleaning method for the type of sex you will be engaging in. The Two Types Of Cleaning For Anal Sex There are two types of cleaning for anal sex: a light douche, which is cleaning for basic anal play that includes oral, dextral and light penetration and an enema, which is deep cleaning for hardcore anal sex that includes deep pegging, big anal toys and fisting.

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International Mistress in Madrid

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Racy Wilde is an International Mistress based in Madrid. She provides services in BDSM, Domination/submission (D/s), Fetish, and BDSM Education through private sessions, mentorships and coaching, and public seminars and workshops. She travels throughout Spain and Europe. Miss Racy has designed her personal journey to develop into the Professional Dominatrix she is today. Discovering her natural talents in BDSM and Domination at a young age, she has spent years learning, developing and practicing her craft with the best players in the world scene, creating her distinct Femdom philosophy, style, techniques and methods. She is an Absolute Domme, a real Sadist, an

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FEMDOM EVENING EQUESTRIANISM

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FEMDOM EVENING EQUESTRIANISM Si eres Mujer Dominante, el Club de Damas te invita a participar a una noche de Entrenamiento FemDom. El ambiente será distendido y discreto, y tendremos la comodidad de un elegante local privado dispuesto para ello. Será impartido por una de nuestras integrantes, la Sra. Racy Wilde. Racy Wilde es una experimentada Dominatrix y estilo de vida como Domme. Tiene una filosofía y un estilo FemDom distintivos, y ha desarrollado su propio protocolo, técnicas y métodos a lo largo de muchos años, realizando sesiones con miles de parejas de todo el mundo. En este Seminario teórico y

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Getting Into The Minds Of submissives

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I don’t talk about penetrating your mind and seducing you into submission because… I’m a real sadist. I am very careful with the body, but even more so with the mind, because I know how to use you and abuse you, how to hit your core to shake your equilibrium, and how to destroy your perception of yourself. This is a talent that can be very dangerous, and I do not use it lightly. I need full consent by a submissive who is fully aware of the risks, has proven to Me they have the capacity to emotionally overcome whatever

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The Marilyn Monroe Wonder

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This is something I rarely reveal in public…  I’ve seen thousands of Pro-Dominatrix sites and their Social Media. What most, if not all, have in common is how they spin a story that they are a ‘master of mind penetration’. They say they understand men and that they can make them turn putty in Her hands, as if that is the thing men desire from Her the most. But yet, I know most Pro-Dominatrices, (if not all), don’t do the one thing a man truly desires. What does a man desire? To be desired. This is something that today’s Pro-Dominatrices

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Punch Drunk Dommespace

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Whatever this writing, it doesn’t do the experience justice. Three months they have to give Me first. Three months I require them to bank enough credit before I will start My investment. Three months of their body, their pain, their ass, their commitment and devotion. I only lightly train, I only lightly play, I only lightly give My energy to them. Three months is the probation time My personal submissives must give Me before I will give Myself to them. Most don’t make it. At the beginning of last night, I told him, ‘We are at the three-month mark of

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How To Train Your Gentlemen

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It is common talk among women today about the lack of gentlemanship among men. ‘Where are the gentlemen?’ they ask. ‘In the old days, men knew how to treat a woman, talk to a woman and take care of her. In the old days, there was chivalry… ‘ and they go on and on about how they want a ‘Mr Knightly or Mr Darcy’. But there is one thing these women don’t know about the old days… In the old days, a gentleman was not naturally chivalrous or charming or sophisticated… He was not inherently manly and stylish, dutiful or

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