So, you want your ass to be ravaged? Well, this is a real world, no bullshit, reality:
I’m in the big leagues. I use pegs that are too heavy for my strapon that I have to hold them up with two hands. Don’t be fooled by my pegs in pictures. Most are 20cm, and they are used for hardcore banging. I’m definitely an Extreme Queen – go big or go home. I have many years experience with hundreds of partners. However, I am also a beginner specialist.
Firstly, if you don’t already play with your ass, especially when you masturbate, you are not ready for any pegging. Just a finger is not good enough. You want to be able to fit a 3cm thick, 12cm long dildo at a minimum. If you want hardcore fucking, then you need to be able to fit a 18cm dildo so we can use a 12cm for banging. When you go hard and fast, for safety you have to downsize.
Secondly, it is up to you to train yourself. Many subs are under the impression that Dommes are supposed to train asses… That’s bullshit. Maybe, if you are in a long-term relationship with your Domme, but when it comes down to it, the onus is still on you. I understand that you see training your ass as an erotic experience that you want to share with someone else, but training your ass takes a lot of time, patience and endurance. You shouldn’t expect any Domme to sit there with you holding your hand. The best anal sluts are the ones who enjoy it on their own. They are dedicated in training their asses for themselves.
Thirdly, don’t expect your ass to be trained overnight. It takes years of dedication. The sluts I know have taken five years to be big enough to fit my two fists. Anal play is not a fun run, it is an Olympic sport. I don’t have five long years to train someone to the level I enjoy: anal-athlete.
Lastly, virgins or basic anal players are limited to what they can do. You can’t bang, go long or wide. There is usually no emotional or thrilling pleasure for someone going through their first anal experience – it is very practical. It is expected to be this way because it is not good to emotionally overwhelm someone when they need to focus on what is happening with their body.
With that said, I am an anal trainer and I specialise in beginners. Men hire my services so they can experience anal from a highly experienced Dominatrix. I like helping people learn about anal, and even though it’s business, I enjoy training. It is the connection, the closeness, that creates the thrill and passion for Me.
If you are looking for your first anal play, it is best to start with an experienced Domme, after training yourself a little first. As a beginner (aka, you’re a virgin)… don’t expect to go too far into the deep end when you haven’t learnt to swim yet.
Now… if you are a well-trained anal slut, we are sure to have a wild, erotic fucking experience. I don’t just stand there and pump, my peg is an extension of my body. The last sub I had, he couldn’t believe how real it felt to be with me. It is always a goal to achieve the immaculate orgasm, and if an ass is very ready, to have multiple assgasms.