PROFESSIONAL FEMDOM
I am a traditional Femdom — a woman who lives Female Domination as her natural identity and orientation. For over twenty years I have cultivated my craft across Europe’s cultural capitals, blending English Discipline, German Objectification, and French Decadence into a unique philosophy of power and erotic authorship.
I walk in the old ways of Femdom. Not as a commercial ProDomme or escort, but as an authentic Domina: intellectual, philosophical, artistic, and divinely perverse. My domination is fuelled by real female desire. No scripts, no roleplay—only the living authority of a woman who leads, transforms, and claims those ready to surrender.
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THE BENEFACTOR PHILOSOPHY
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In my world, submission is not a transaction—it is devotion. And devotion, when lived fully, often finds its most natural form in patronage.
Those who enter My Femdom as submissives do so as benefactors—not clients. A benefactor-submissive does not “buy” experiences. He invests in a living dynamic, sustaining the life and work of a Domina so she can remain what she is—a creator, a guide, and a force of erotic transformation. In return, he gains something no script or session can offer: proximity to real female power, access to a philosophy being written and lived, and a place within a court built on ritual, intimacy, mutual elevation and shared legacy.
Historically, courtesans, salon hostesses, and geishas sustained their artistry and influence through benefactors—men who understood that their role was not to purchase moments, but to invest in a woman’s presence, freedom, and genius. Leonardo da Vinci had patrons so that he could paint. Poets had sponsors so that their words could flourish. In the same way, a true Domina has benefactors who ensure Her life, Her work, and Her artistry are not diminished by the grind of ordinary survival.
My benefactors are not clients buying entertainment; they are devotees with the respect and courage to invest in what they revere. Their support allows Me to deepen my writing, my mentorship, my research, and my very presence as a Domina. In return, they receive something far greater than a scene or roleplay—they are woven into the life of a woman who embodies female dominance as truth, as culture, and as art.
It is about becoming part of a living tradition where devotion sustains not just a Femdom relationship, but a philosophy.
MENTORSHIP
FOR DOMINAS
Femdom is an identity and orientation to be lived. My mentorship exists to help women discover this truth for themselves—that authority comes not from acting or costumes, but from the centre of their own erotic power.
When Dominas come to me, they are not looking for tricks, games, or theatrical roleplay. They want to ground their Femdom in authenticity. I guide them into Femdom authorship: teaching how to structure dynamics around their desire rather than a submissive’s fantasy, and how to carry authority with clarity, confidence, and presence.
Through my frameworks—Absolute vs. Relative Femdom, Femdomsexuality, and the Gift Economy—I help Dominas step beyond the clichés of kink culture. They learn to ethically dominate without apology, to separate fantasy from truth, and to create dynamics that flow from their own erotic authorship.
To enter mentorship with me is to join a lineage of women who author their own philosophy and structures, redefining what female power means in our time
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REPUTATION
I am a Lifestyle Domina, Professional Femdom mentor, and internationally recognised practitioner of authentic Female Domination. I hold a Master of Philosophy focused on Femdom literature, lifestyle, and philosophy—one of the few Dominas in the world with an academic foundation in the subject I live and teach.
Across Europe—from London, Berlin, Oslo to Barcelona and Madrid—I have developed my unique philosophy and domination style. In Madrid, I was a member of a private Domina house with a luxury members-only dungeon, where I led group Femdom events, ritual ceremonies, and high-protocol dinners.
I have mentored Dominas, couples, and submissives worldwide, offering workshops at private clubhouses, guest appearances at clubs, and education at BDSM and fetish events. Submissives have flown in from around the world to learn from and serve Me. My writings on Femdom—covering philosophy, technique, safety, consent, and protocol—are read by those who seek to move beyond tropes, misinformation, and pop-kink into real, living Femdom.
I keep my public presence discreet for the sake of my lifestyle and my submissives. However, my profile on Fetlife and Instagram offer glimpses of my personal experiences, writings, and interactions over the years, including raw and intimate images of real male submission—a living record of authenticity, craft, and female dominance.
I am the one and only Miss Racy Wilde.
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