I assure you, I’m the real deal.
Through my travels, I have met some amazing people all over the world and have experienced some very kinky, fun and intimate sessions. I’m polyamorous and have several lovers, so I’m content with my relationships, though I enjoy playing with new people in the cities I travel to.
I mostly travel to cities in Europe, especially Oslo, Copenhagen, Stockholm and London. I have been known to return to my home country, Australia, every once in a while. I do have plans to travel to the U.S – New York and San Francisco – and Canada, but perhaps next year.
When I’m about to travel, I normally put an ad on certain websites to find potential play partners. First, I need to get to know a person’s character, that they are honest and legit, that we are compatible. Connection is very important to me, sexual and physical (visual). If there is nothing there between us, then nothing will happen. If we connect online, we make arrangements for real life. However, nothing is ever definite until we meet in person. I’m a realist – we might not click. No matter how much prep we do to get to know each other beforehand, there just might not be enough chemistry in real life.
I like meeting in public places where we don’t have to sit on our asses and drink. I’ve been taken to the zoo, a wedding, the theatre, parks, a market, and ping pong was my favourite. I love going to social dance classes. (Not many men have the courage to dance, especially with a professional. Meet up dates that include dancing are always considered first. 💋) When we decide we both connect, we can take it further if we choose…
Play sessions are just that, casual hook ups to explore and fulfill each other’s desires.
My play sessions are about strength and endurance, pleasurable torture and pain, but also sensuality, intimacy and passion. Of course, this can only happen when I have the right sub, one who complements my sensibilities, so careful selection is in both our interests. To read more about my domination style visit my Femdom page.
Experiences I’ve led during play sessions include, but are not limited to: pegging, fisting, cock and ball torture, impact play (flogging, cropping, caning), bondage, orgasm control, feminisation, foot worship and sensory deprivation. I don’t do toilet or edge play.
I enjoy an organic and positive atmosphere. Some scenes may become erotically intense, where desire surpasses our expectations. This is when it’s fun to see where our passions take us.
I’m a safety girl – Play must be safe, sane and consensual. I am clean, clear and healthy, and have regular screenings – I expect my play partners to do the same. I can have several partners during a weekend visit, so to keep us all safe, I do not exchange sexual fluids. I don’t like to negatively impact the mind or strip a sub of their dignity. I prefer to keep my sub’s confidence and a male’s masculinity, intact. Even though I do soothe my subs and ultimately care for their wellbeing, I’m not a nurturer.
I prefer to part as strangers, taking with us a valuable experience of the human connection. Knowing as little as possible about each other, just enough to make our fleeting experience incredible, is ideal. Sometimes, if the connection has been particularly strong, I might pursue a relationship further.