RacyWilde

Wearing My Clothes Makes You Sexy As Fuck

I value men and their masculinity. I don’t feminise to humiliate, I feminise so my sub and I can experience my passion for him. One of my favourite songs is from Madonna. It has an unapologetic message: Girls can wear jeans and cut their hair short Wear shirts and boots ‘cause it’s okay to be a boy But for a… Read more →

Stalker

Do you have someone you stalk on Fetlife? I do too! And he has absolutely no idea…haha! Every morning when I wake up and every night while I’m in bed, I check on his profile to see what he’s been up to. I read the stories he has read, admire the pictures he has loved and smirk at the comments… Read more →

Anal Training for Complete Beginners

This piece is dedicated to all the subs who want me to train their ass.   There are no hard and fast rules on anal training – every ass, every man and every situation is different. The best you can do is listen to your body and make informed choices for your own training. I have had good experience with… Read more →

Train Your Own Ass

Straight up – Your ass training is your own responsibility. The sexiest men are the ones who train their own asses. They are the ones who have their own toys, the ones who know how to be prepared and the ones who can take it. They show initiative, are proactive and take responsibility – they are sexy as fuck! Too… Read more →

Corrupting Van Helsing – Short Memoir

I met the young Van Helsing at the train station. He was casually leaning against the railing waiting for me. I recognised him straight away but he only knew it was me when I bounded up and gave a quick hug. Meet-and-greets in public places have always been awkward for me, I prefer to take my men straight to the… Read more →

Thrill & Passion

I’ve received a lot of interest on my ideas from my recent post The Subtleties of Dominance about the different types of arousal I experience as a Domme. So I thought I’d write a little more in-depth about it. The specific sentence that has intrigued people is: Smart boy, because I found myself wanting to do things to him for my… Read more →

The Subtleties of Dominance

Being a Domme isn’t an act, I don’t play at it, I don’t summon a character for a perforamce like an actor does for stage. Being a Domme is an organic, ever-changing part of me. It is a countenance, a disposition, a feeling, and a feature of my sexuality. It’s personal. It is something I share with those I connect… Read more →

Maverick – Short Memoir

When having a kinky weekender in such a small city as Oslo you have to broaden your search area – yes, I go to Tinder. There are two main problems with Tinder boys: they tend to be waify and they have no clue about BDSM. Sure they know about anal and deep throating but when I clarify that they are the ones… Read more →

A Promiscuous Domme Has Her Loves Too

  “Why don’t you want a long-term relationship?” is what I get asked all the time as if my choice is somehow lesser. I can hear their brains ticking over: Are you a slut? Are you messed up? Afraid of love? I rattle off a list of viable replies, all true, but the reality is: I am a promiscuous woman… Read more →